This is dating tips for men. Let’s just to the point.
1. You didn’t listen.
I put this very first because almost every guy did this. You talk too much. When you are on first date, you suppose to make a conversation. Not putting her as a consultant or your psychiatric. If you finish talking, ask her something. And you should do that nicely. Put on your curious face, because this is important. And most important: try to listen and not cut the conversation before she finish talking.
I put this very first because almost every guy did this. You talk too much. When you are on first date, you suppose to make a conversation. Not putting her as a consultant or your psychiatric. If you finish talking, ask her something. And you should do that nicely. Put on your curious face, because this is important. And most important: try to listen and not cut the conversation before she finish talking.
2. You touch her.
Holding hand, grab shoulder, touching cheek—not every girl can take it. I give you an example. You ride a motorbike, you pull her to hug you from behind, and you hold her hand while she hugging you from behind. Look, girls hate rejection. That’s why we usually throw break up first. And if you guys ask them to hug, we are mostly feel like caught up in the moment. Many things comes to our head if we plan rejection. Like, we tought about the worst scenario. Might be rape, or another. So please be polite by creating comfort distance between you and her. Here’s a tip: shaking hand still okay.
Holding hand, grab shoulder, touching cheek—not every girl can take it. I give you an example. You ride a motorbike, you pull her to hug you from behind, and you hold her hand while she hugging you from behind. Look, girls hate rejection. That’s why we usually throw break up first. And if you guys ask them to hug, we are mostly feel like caught up in the moment. Many things comes to our head if we plan rejection. Like, we tought about the worst scenario. Might be rape, or another. So please be polite by creating comfort distance between you and her. Here’s a tip: shaking hand still okay.
3. You didn’t take her home right on time.
You ask her out, you take her home. Why must on time? Because it is represent your ability to get into a commitment. Eventhough you’re not pretty serious with her, this is important as well. What if she ask you out? Still, take her home right on time.
You ask her out, you take her home. Why must on time? Because it is represent your ability to get into a commitment. Eventhough you’re not pretty serious with her, this is important as well. What if she ask you out? Still, take her home right on time.
4. You stick to your gadget.
Okay guys, look. You might wanna update your Path, check in on Foursquare or just tweeting something, but that’s it, no more. Don’t even play Get Rich on first date, that is so uncool. Put away your phone or gadget, and enjoy your dating. We’re gonna think you’re not comfortable with us if you keep scrolling your Twitter timeline, and stick to your phone like a baby just got a new toy. Be a man!
Okay guys, look. You might wanna update your Path, check in on Foursquare or just tweeting something, but that’s it, no more. Don’t even play Get Rich on first date, that is so uncool. Put away your phone or gadget, and enjoy your dating. We’re gonna think you’re not comfortable with us if you keep scrolling your Twitter timeline, and stick to your phone like a baby just got a new toy. Be a man!
5. You involve her into your social media
She might not that into you, so please be polite to not involve her into your social media. Like, mention her account in Path or Twitter, or tag her on Instagram. You think she happy for that? NOPE. Think about this: she might have crush on somebody else, so you have to.. you know, lower your expectation.
She might not that into you, so please be polite to not involve her into your social media. Like, mention her account in Path or Twitter, or tag her on Instagram. You think she happy for that? NOPE. Think about this: she might have crush on somebody else, so you have to.. you know, lower your expectation.
6. You tried to manipulate her
Don’t act like you don’t understand. Well, I must admit, not every guy did this. But still, they are among us. Are you one of them? What I’m trying to say is, if you push her or insist her to make you get into her place, whatever it is (house, apartment, or dorm), you are manipulating her. Yes, I’m talking about pervert move. Unless you really wanna go to the bathroom. But, don’t take it as a challenge! I’m gonna tell you something: real man gonna wait his date outside or downstairs while she preparing herself/ freshen up. Read number 4 again, don’t make us caught up in the moment.
Don’t act like you don’t understand. Well, I must admit, not every guy did this. But still, they are among us. Are you one of them? What I’m trying to say is, if you push her or insist her to make you get into her place, whatever it is (house, apartment, or dorm), you are manipulating her. Yes, I’m talking about pervert move. Unless you really wanna go to the bathroom. But, don’t take it as a challenge! I’m gonna tell you something: real man gonna wait his date outside or downstairs while she preparing herself/ freshen up. Read number 4 again, don’t make us caught up in the moment.
7. You smell really bad.
I put this at seven because guy who really want a date must be preparing himself. But, (so many buts in here, right?), people stink. Just don’t forget to wear deodorant, perfume and mouthwash, okay?
I put this at seven because guy who really want a date must be preparing himself. But, (so many buts in here, right?), people stink. Just don’t forget to wear deodorant, perfume and mouthwash, okay?
That’s all. And you should know, if she doesn’t call you anymore or just even say hi, well maybe the date wasn’t that good. Or perhaps, you did anything I just wrote above. Ow, and one more thing: about the bills. We are glad if you ‘volunteer’ to pay, but let girls do that on the second date. But every girl is different. If you dating a business women or career women, they might wanna pay their own bill. So, brace yourself. Being hero isn’t always about money.
If you notice and do everything I suggest in this article, trust me, girls would flock to you.
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